The Chronicle of Higher Education has a series of articles about sexual harassment in fund raising today. Unfortunately, you need a subscription to read them, but if you have a subscription to the Chronicle of Philanthropy, the same articles appear there.
I really had no idea that sexual advances on development officers by donors was such a prevalent problem. But upon reading the main article, it makes sense that the potential would exist.
In many cases, those women are appealing to older, powerful men for large donations. To succeed, fund raisers must build long-term relationships with donors. And they often visit donors in their homes or meet them in social settings where alcohol and personal information are plentiful.
To be sure, unwelcome sexual advances are not a daily occurrence for most fund raisers. But the problem happens often enough that they and the organizations that employ them should have better guidance on what they can do to prevent and deal with harassment, says Polly Aris Stamatopoulos, a Washington consultant to nonprofit groups.
Ms. Stamatopoulos says she has rejected inappropriate sexual requests from donors and observed several incidents in which other donors or trustees made sexual overtures toward fund raisers she supervised. People who raise money for a living, she says, should be required to take “a class in the sexual politics of fund raising.”
It occurs to me that this may be an even bigger problem in the arts where the development office is often comprised of one person with few people to turn to for support or to shift a donor to. Given that the executive director is often the primary fundraiser in many organizations, the situation can even be worse with no one but the board to turn to for support. One of those interviewed in the articles spoke of feeling an obligation to keep the donations coming. Her sense of obligation was entirely self imposed because when she spoke to her supervisors after tolerating the advances for two years, they readily assigned the donor to another staff member. The donor never gave to the organization again. It isn’t hard for me to imagine that in some situations staff supervisors or board members would discourage the affected person from rocking the boat too much lest they endanger fund raising efforts.
Most organizations have sexual harassment policies that cover employee behavior, but I suspect few have explicit statements that employees should expect reasonable treatment from patrons and donors as well. Dealing with advances from members of the public is much more complicated than similar situations with employees. That only means that clear policies should be generated so that people can confidently and knowledgeably handle the situation.
It makes sense for organizations to train fund raisers about how to carry themselves as a representative of the company in social situations far away from the work environment. Instruction on how to handle every manner of uncomfortable situations, including unwanted advances is a logical component of such training. But I am guessing it not the sort of training many arts organizations provide.
The Chronicle of Philanthropy is hosting an online discussion on Wednesday, July 14 about coping with unwanted advances if anyone is interested in exploring the topic.